There is a solution, but it is not for the faint of heart. Tell your significant other that if you are ready by X Time, I'm leaving with or without...and then back up your words with actions. It lead to a few angry days and some silent treatment but after the storm is over, if the man sticks his ground and does not apologize for his behavior the next time and all future times the husband says I am leaving at _____ time, with or without you. She will be ready.
No, but I have done a lot of reading and video watching on these things. I have heard testimonials of this working. Cowtowing to one's wife every time can backfire. I have seen it happen with some of my married friends. At the same time, never doing what your wife wans is bad too.
If you had replied "not anymore", I would have lost my shit laughing (silently on the inside... out of politeness).