I almost got pulled back in.
Correction...
I almost got pulled back in.
i'm a professional writer
Unexpected.
Seems like an interesting stance to take when you are actually the OP of the thread. I wasn't aware the point wasn't to drive actual discussion... perhaps the thread title should be more clear? I'm not sure, but it just didn't come across to me as a "let me post my memes in peace" thread. If that was the intention, that's my bad.
I made a very simple and respectful request of you, to leave me out of it...
That said, I politely ask that you refrain from tagging or quoting me.
I respectfully request that you please leave me out of it.
You lasted 21 minutes before denying my peaceful attempt at bowing out. Much less even, when we factor in that it would have taken you a certain number of minutes to write your response. So be it.
With the my diplomatic attempt rejected, let's put our cards on the table more forcefully. No more hiding behind niceties and decorum. There are many reasons why I do not wish to engage with you on this topic.
Firstly, on the other thread you posted this:
You've somehow completely missed my point because you're so quick to defend some right vs left bullshit argument. You have no idea where i stand on the political spectrum
While it was
not in direct reference to the discussion on this forum, it is most definitely inter-related. No offense, but I have an extremely good idea of where you lie. There are key markers that give away those that reside on that side of the aisle. While forum rules prevent me from placing a specific label such as SJW, liberal, left-leaning, extreme left, NPC or the like, I think it is fair to say that I know roughly where you fall.
How can I tell? The most obvious give away was the way in which you entered this discussion (way back in mid-February). Despite the trigger warning in the forum title, you instantly demonstrated that you entered the fray emotionally charged. Unprovoked, you immediately started throwing verbal punches at me. If you were strictly approaching the subject from a viewpoint that is free from political ideology, then you would have interacted with this topic with a more level-head (at least at the onset) rather than semi-aggressive instigation. It wasn't an intellectual disagreement that you had with the topic; instead it wounded you right from the start. The kind of wound that is political in nature. It wasn't in disagreement with some analytical viewpoint you held, but something with a deeper personal meaning. The second give away, is that the two sides differ on the importance placed upon
facts versus
feelings. I'll leave it at that.
With that said, here are the reasons why I don't want to engage with you on this topic:
1. Social Justice playbook: I've heard these arguments before countless times. You have presented nothing new. Depending on where one draws the line, you'd be the forum's 5th iteration of a person taking up that side of the argument. Others have already presented your arguments and have done so more effectively and with less unprovoked hostility. It's unstimulating, tiresome and a waste of my energy. No learning opportunities are granted by it and I stand to gain nothing.
2. I
t will only lead to arguments: I gave you the benefit of the doubt and you immediately proved to be unworthy of civil discourse. It's one thing to have a discussion slowly escalate, where each person builds upon the other, but you threw shots at me right away. If it turned nasty the first time (when everything was completely peaceful prior to your arrival) then it will probably turn nasty when we engage in the next round with prior animus from our last little verbal dance. The first time I engaged with you wishing to have a civil dialogue, and in all honesty, I don't have that same feeling this time around (which is why a tried to peacefully withdraw).
3. It's a pointless waste of time: The way I see it, there are only two reasons to have these kinds of discussions/debates. The first [and vastly more preferable option], is an honest exchange of ideas, where it is hoped that each person has the opportunity to learn, grown and become intellectually better for it. As I said before, there is nothing new being presented here and only one side is bolstering their side of the argument with any sort of factual support. The second reason is to verbally decapitate your opponent and throw their metaphorical severed head across the room for all to see; an aggressive win-at-all costs debate. In such a cutthroat debate, feelings are always vulnerable to being hurt and forum etiquette is quickly skirted, eroded and broken. So neither option is of particular interest and I can better spend my time elsewhere.
With all that said, is it simply too much that I ask to be left alone?
I apologized for my previous crassness (something i never got)
Something you never got? Why should you have? You instigated that entire episode. The discussion was perfectly peaceful before you interjected yourself into the thread. With all due respect, you were at fault and I was not. Why would I apologize for being transgressed against when you were the transgressor? Why would you even expect an apology in that instance? Please note however, that once you called off your attack, I immediately ceased all hostilities.
You pushed. I held my ground. I make no apologies for that.
i'd like to interact with this thread in any manner I choose
I have never expressed qualms about you engaging with the thread. If you read my post carefully (*bolded retroactively for emphasis*)....
You are more than welcome to interact with the thread and others in it, but I respectfully request that you please leave me out of it.
I view that to be pretty simple and reasonable.
I don't believe i've been personal with any of my arguments and have kept the swearing to a minimum. If you disagree there's a report button for that exact situation.
The day the NIGHTBRINGER needs a report button to deal with Putzfrau.

Don't misconstrue my attempt to leave things be peacefully with an attempt to protect myself from you.
I'd politely suggest not creating controversial topics on public forums if you aren't interested in having conversations (fruitful or not) with people who don't already agree with you.
You realize that "fruitful" was just my polite and diplomatic way of saying a discussion where you broke all kinds of forum rules. I'd politely suggest that you don't politely suggest what topics or forums I should create. It was you that proved yourself emotionally incapable of handling the thread, not me.
Just because I create a thread, doesn't mean that I wish to interact with each and every person who joins it. If I were to host an astronomy conference, it wouldn't mean that I had a desire to debate the flat-earther who invited himself in. For clarity, I'm not implying that you are a flat-earther, I have no idea where you stand in regards to the oblate spheroid nature of our lovely planet.
Also, I remember you stating:
(hence this whole garbage heap of a thread)
You made that post way back on February 14; a full 23 days ago. Yet here you are still interacting with the thread. Not only interacting with the thread, but badgering another forumite for interaction after he politely asked that you leave him out of it.
Why waste so much of your time on a garbage heap of a thread? Were you initially being dishonest in your assessment, or do you legitimately have nothing better to do?
So where does that leave us? I guess I would reiterate my request that you leave me out of your discussions, especially seeing that there are others that are willing to engage with you. The way I see it, our little back and forth ends in one of three ways:
- You respect my wishes, leave me alone and I in turn respectfully leave you alone. We go our separate ways. [NIGHTBRINGER's recommended option].
- You disregard my wishes, this escalates to "mostly peaceful" (pun intended) and the mods intervene
- The mods, upon reading this (admittedly "questionable", but provoked) counter, intervene right here and now [probably the most likely outcome, and I wouldn't blame them, but at least it is settled]
So what will it be? Are you willing to leave this amicably?
P.S. I was wrong about this being totally worthless and without merit. At some point in time,
@Lord Agragax of Lunaxoatl will come by and state something along the lines of "I leave you guys alone for a couple of days and look what happens!"

In all honesty, I'm looking forward to it, always a nice way to bring some levity into an otherwise tense situation. As long as he doesn't remind me that I could have spent this time on my Lore of Metal Deep Dive (and he wouldn't be wrong

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